Sunday, April 15, 2007

Joey's Home!

Finally! After months of waiting and thousands of miles of travel Joey is home.

Having departed Guangzhou 28 hours earlier, we arrived at Dane County Airport at 7:25 am (Sunday, April 15) and were greeted by very excited Grandmas and Grandpa. The homecoming was nicely documented by MB's uncle Bill.

Our home was festively decorated both outside and in by family (thanks Jim and Emily) and neighbors (thanks to the Scotts). After donuts and juice and a little playtime, the grandparents departed. Before we returned to the house a few neighbors gathered in the driveway to welcome Joey.

After a 5 hour nap Joey and Bagheera were introduced without much reaction from either.

Joey has already settled in and has explored much of the house (including many drawers and cupboards) and has either played with or "eyed" the toys which many of you so kindly gifted to us. He is not yet sure how he feels about grass, but he's coming around!

We want to thank everyone for supporting us during the adoption process. We are so thankful for being blessed with Joey.

The Kirschbaums

Friday, April 13, 2007

A New Day...

Refreshed from a night's sleep, regardless of the quality, has brought a more positive outlook toward our journey home. Hopefully, the next bed we sleep in will be our own.

The new travel itinerary is as follows:

Leave Guangzhou 9pm 4/14 on flight #327 arrive LA 6:50pm 4/14
Leave LA at 11:50pm 4/14 on flight #136 arrive O'Hare 5:40am 4/15
Leave Chicago 6:55am 4/15 on flight #5818 arrive Madison 7:46am 4/15

We'll determine how long to stay in the comfort of the hotel before traveling to the airport. We do want to try for the bulkhead seats so may go early.

Tom, MB and big Joe!

PS: There were no pretty pictures from yesterday!

Thursday, April 12, 2007

Day from Hell

Unbelievable Day. At 11:00 an we were told that all of the children in our CCAI group would get their visas today except Joey. Tom had been on the phone trying to contact ANYONE (Dean's Lobbyist, Michael Heifetz for access numbers, Feingold, Kohl) to help us, but to no avail. Finally, after calling the Consulate endlessly for two hours, we were told that Joey's visa would be processed today. That's the good news.

Unfortunately, when our Guides were told that we could not receive Joey's visa today, they booked the last two tickets on tomorrow night's flight to LA. So, once they learned that Joey's visa was going to be processed today, they immediately called the airlines to have our original tickets rebooked. No such luck. Instead we were waitlisted and therefore had to go "stand by" and hang around the airport for 2.5 hours with a fussy little boy. The plane was overbooked, and we did not get on the flight.

So, we're back at the White Swan Hotel for another night. Everyone is extremely nice to us as they feel very sorry for us! We just smile and nod. This day has been almost as emotional as the day that we got Joey...just different emotions.

Hope to get home Sunday.

Guess we'll eat at the buffet again,
mb, tom, joe

Wednesday, April 11, 2007

Homeward Bound!

Hi Again:

This will probably be the last entry from China, but maybe not the last entry for the blog. We'll likely provide pictures of how the trip ends at the airport and how our new life with Joey begins in Madison. We may send a note around noon if all systems are go but anything more than that update will be bad news.

Updates on the two big events for today. First, the important Consulate appointment to get Joey's visa into the USA. We received a call from our Guides that our paperwork was accepted. Now we cross our fingers that receiving Joey's visa goes smoothly. As we told you yesterday, the computers were down at the Consulate, so several families did not leave on time. Bummer. We're all a little anxious as there are no more hotel rooms available starting on Saturday, as this kicks off the bi-annual Electronics Trade Show in Guangzhou and it runs thru the end of April. Think positive thoughts for us if you would. We would REALLY, REALLY like to leave on time. (We will find out more tomorrow morning around 11 am.)

The other more interesting, but less important item of the day was the photo session on the famous "red couch". As you can see from the photos Joey was decked out in traditional male Chinese garb for the occasion. Probably won't ever wear that again or let us dress him in such attire.

Shopping was concluded and packing initiated today. Suitcase space occupied by food on the flight over is now occupied by some souvenirs and gifts on the flight back.

Tomorrow we will get up and eat at our final buffet. It has been our favorite meal. How many days in a row can you eat french toast and bacon...the answer is at least 16! We may make a couple last minute purchases, take a couple extra photos and repack.

We'll leave the hotel for our 2pm Consulate appointment after lunch. Immediately after the appointment the bus will take us and 8 other families to the airport. We'll leave Guangzhou at 9pm travel thru LA and Chicago and arrive in Madison at 7:30 am Saturday morning - hopefully! Wish us luck as we travel with a VERY ACTIVE little boy.

The trip will have ended but the adventure just begins. It will be fun to introduce Joey to our family, friends, his new home and Bagheera (his nanny told us he didn't care for furry stuffed animals) so that will be interesting.

Once we're all settled in and sure that Joey has once again adjusted to another major change in his life, we'd love to have you meet him.

Thanks for traveling along with us on this amazing journey!

The Kirschbaums

Sunshine!

Hello:

At long last we had some patches of blue sky and sunshine today. It didn't make the headlines of the local English printed paper, The China Daily, but it should have. We have been diligently saving each day's edition of this newspaper for Joey so he can see what China was like when he came to America. We haven't seen much sun since we arrived due to clouds and smog. As we boarded the bus for our final field trip today many in our party donned their shades. I left mine in the hotel thinking I'd jinx the whole thing if I wore them. The lack of sun has contributed to the "Ground Hog Day" condition that was described in the previous entry.

Today's "distraction attraction" was a 20 minute trip to Baiyun Mountain Park. Baiyun means "white cloud". It isn't really a mountain but it is the highest point in Guangzhou and provides an excellent view of the city. Today was the clearest day we've had in 19 days so it was a good day to go (smog was still a limiting factor in visibility though). We took electric cars similar to an extended golf cart holding 12-15 people (12 if American, 15 if Chinese) up the "mountain" to another Buddhist Temple. Then we had to walk about 15 minutes to the top (most of which were steps). I had an additional 26 lbs of flesh strapped to my hip so I'll feel it tonight. MB was right behind with the back pack containing provisions for the excursion. You know such necessities as diapers, wipes, change of clothes in case one of us soils himself, photo equipment and all the makings for a toddler's picnic like juice, hot water for oatmeal, oatmeal, and a bib - don't forget the Cheerios! Remember RULE #1 WHERE JOEY GOES SO GO THE CHEERIOS!

I should mention Joey's limited English vocabulary (don't ask me his Cantonese or Mandarin vocabulary) includes "up" and "down" so we chanted together "up, up, up..." as we ascended the mountain. I think it was his way of encouraging "his old man".

Once we reached the summit, we were rewarded with a bird show. There is an aviary at the top of the climb and Joey sort of liked the birds...he was a little apprehensive though. We congratulated ourselves for completing the endeavor by taking a gondola down the mighty slope. Quite fun, even for those with "height fright" like me! We were then served a traditional Chinese meal. (Is that my stomach growling!)

It was so nice outside that we squeezed in a another swim. Joey did well the first time (almost a week ago) but we had been unable to get back to the pool due to the weather. He continues to like the water.

Tomorrow (Thursday) has two important events. First, our guides take Joey's visa paperwork to the US Consulate. It is our appointment but we don't go - only the documents. We must stay in our room from 11am-noon(ish) - until we receive a phone call letting us know everything is acceptable. Our "in person" appointment is on Friday at 2pm when we take Joey to the Consulate. We leave for the airport immediately after that appointment. This is the appointment that lengthened our trip by an additional week. (Most adoptive families only stay in China 2 weeks to finalize their adoption.) I'd like to inquire, as a US citizen, why they couldn't work with our agency to reduce our stay, but think it best not to broach the subject while they are holding Joey's US Visa!

I spoke to a gentleman tonight who's paper work was hung up today because the Consulate's system was down. I think only 8 got out and maybe 22 did not. That could be a total mess with air travel and hotels as there is a huge international trade fair and every hotel is booked. He missed his evening flight and had to reshedule. Lets keep our fingers crossed that everything goes smoothly.

The second event is the traditional "red couch" photo. Apparently, all of the adopted children pose for photos on an actual red couch (if you haven't noticed red is a very important color for the Chinese) on the second floor lobby of the White Swan Hotel. The children are dressed in traditional Chinese attire. MB has her eye on a traditional Chinese outfit (white) already. I have my eye on one that makes him look like royalty - a little emperor. Put your money on the white one!

Well, I've described tomorrow's activities and it is really our last day to blog. Friday we pack, go to the Consulate and catch our 9PM flight home. We're really looking forward to it!

T, MB & Joey

Monday, April 9, 2007

Ground Hog Day

Have you seen this movie? We feel like we are living it! Every day, around 8 am we go to the same buffet, eat the exact same meal (which is actually very good), wear one of the same 5 outfits that we brought (laundry is cheap to have done here), take a walk around the island, chat with the other adoptive families, go to dinner, put Joey down for the night at 7:30, boil water to clean his bottles for the day, and then go to bed early! We are on day #18 of our 22 day journey and are pretty much ready to come home.

Having said that, we actually couldn't be more pleased with Joey, our travels, our accommodations and the people we have encountered along the way. The group of adoptive parents, our Guides (Maggie & Grace), the hotel staff (that actually push the elevator button for you and hold the elevator door EVERY TIME you catch the elevator) have all made this trip quite special. This truly has been the experience of a life time.

We have really appreciated all of your comments on the blog or the personal e-mails that you have sent during our trip, as it has made us feel so much more connected to home. Every night we quickly sign on to the computer, once Joey goes to bed, to check for any correspondence! (I've even been known to save some of my e-mails to read over again later...how pathetic!)

Well, it is raining here today, so the trip to the Baiyun Mountain Park has been postponed until tomorrow. The trip features an electric car ride up a mountain to an aviary and some type of bird show. With weather like this, there is nothing to do but shop! With all of the bartering that goes on here, you find yourself starting to negotiate over 10 Yuan (just a little over $1)!

They have scheduled a two hour boat cruise on the Pearl River tonight. We think we'll pass as we have a fantastic view of the Pearl River, all of its boat activity and beautiful night time laser show out our hotel window. It is also right at Joey's bedtime and its raining. The Pearl is China's 4th largest river and the largest in southern China. From this vantage point, the river seems equivalent to the Mississippi. There are all kinds of boats. No big barges like the Mississippi, but more numerous freighters, ferries and smaller "working" vessels. (Dad, you would love the view that we have!)

Thinking of you,

mb, tom, & joe

Joey turns "21"

Hello:

Joey is a happy, healthy, 21-months old today. Translated, he's on the move all day long! (Even if he doesn't want a nap, Mom & Dad could use one.) Just as we talk about getting him into a routine while we're here, the agency offers another tour and we hate to miss the opportunity to see more of China. So, any sense of "normalcy" is becoming difficult. (Starting Saturday, we will finally be able to try to get him on a routine in his new home!)

We continue to enjoy the confines of our four walls (and our beautiful view). One would think that with two adults and one small child, that keeping watch over his active little life would be easy. I'm not sure if our minds wander, we day dream, or are simply tired, but all of a sudden we'll here the toilet flush! We rush to the bathroom door to hear Joey saying "no, no, no" while waving his finger at the handle of the porcelain bowl! Then he looks over and gives us this big grin! (I think he's mocking me.) I always figured that I'd be the disciplinarian in the family, as Tom really hasn't even taught the dog to obey, but I have a harder time keeping a straight face than Tom. It's been suggested that I use a stricter tone when disciplining Joey as well...I'm always ready to break into a smile or simply laugh out loud at anything he does. Who would have thought...

It is amazing to watch all 16 children in our adoption group transform into active kids with new found personalities. Every parent has commented on how their little one has "come out of their shell" in recent days. What a difference a little one-on-one attention makes in these little peoples' lives. (Their much bolder personalities should make for interesting airplane rides home across the Pacific!)

Well, the weather is warming up here so hope to hit the pool again this week. Tomorrow's itinerary includes a trip to the Baiyun Mountain Park.

Can't wait to be home and have you meet Joey,

mb, tom, and baby kirsch

Saturday, April 7, 2007

Happy Easter 2007 from Guangzhou China!

Happy Easter!

The Easter picture is brought to you by Kodak but the holiday display is from the lobby of the White Swan Hotel! They are in the spirit for their guests.

We attempted to attend Easter services at a bilingual Christian church right across from the hotel. Attempted meaning we found two seats in the back next to the door for easy exit which I used before the service began. MB was "fortunate" enough to remain for about 30 min of the service. I strolled the little devil just outside the church where a speaker allowed me to hear what was going on - both the Cantonese and the English. The little guy must be a buddhist because he showed no interest in the ceremonies. (With lungs like he has, he may be singing in the choir someday!) We also completed a bit of paper work from 2:00-3:30 in order to finalize Joey's visa to the USA.

We celebrated Easter American style by ordering Papa John's pizza. It was pretty good.
However, I did have some sweet & sour chicken on white rice yesterday that was also enjoyable - not equally, but good.

On the "Joey watch" it seems the bath ritual has been perfected, in the third try, as he is now willing to "play" in the tub and we determined when the event was concluded not him. The last couple times he expressed a few objections to the process. A MAJOR, MAJOR development tonight was for Joey to go to the crib while still awake. Previously we laid down with him on the bed and once asleep transferred him into the crib. The transfer was always a crap shoot as to whether he'd wake or not. If he did, it was like landing on the "go back three spaces" square and we'd have to put him down all over again which included a certain amount of crying and anxiety for him and us.

Only a couple more field trips scheduled this week so the final days are likely to be busy making purchases and taking pictures and creating memories to take home with us for this trip of a lifetime.

We are thinking of our family and friends on this special day and hope everyone is well - and that you found all of your Easter eggs ('cause those buggers really stink if you miss one)!

Love,
mb-tom-little joe

As Simon says - Its all happening at the zoo!

Ni hao!

This is our update from Saturday. We went to the Guangzhou Zoo today. Pretty nice with lots of animals. Rhinos, hippos, monkeys you could feed in the exhibit, a children's zoo, elephants, dolphins, lions, tigers and bears-oh my! And of course one old panda. The zoo was bigger than Madison's but probably not bigger than Milwaukee's. Probably not as modern as either. But the animals all seemed pretty lively. All except those alligators and crocs. Do they ever move?

Joey was a trooper for the two hours in the stroller and half hour bus ride each way. I think he enjoyed seeing the different animals.

After our Easter Egg hunt tomorrow we may check out a Christian service at a near by church. It won't be mass but it is bilingual.

Home in a week!

Larry , Curly and Joe!

Friday, April 6, 2007

Orphanage Tour

Good Friday to you! ( a day late)

We're more than a little "out of touch" over here. It wasn't until after lunch that we realized it was Good Friday, which explains the usual helping of bacon at breakfast this morning and whatever may have been in that rice dish at lunch.

We were fortunate to be afforded the opportunity to visit Joey's orphanage as this does not always happen. We were able to tour, take pictures, ask questions and even speak with Joey's primary nanny. A hug was delivered in appreciation for her good care. The details and pictures will be preserved for Joey.

On our way back to the hotel, the bus stopped at the government square in Dongguan City. We are told that it rivals Tienanmen Square in Beijing. This was an enormous park with green space, benches, art sculptures and beautiful fountains and reflecting pools. It was nice to let Joey run around a bit since he had been on the bus for several hours and then in the hip hammock for quite a while too.

Tomorrow should be a fun day...we're going to the zoo (they have a panda)!

Wednesday, April 4, 2007

One Week Anniversary

Hello!

We hope that this finds you all doing well and getting ready for Easter.

Today is our one week anniversary together. Of course we are all still getting used to our new life and figuring out the necessary routines, but in many ways it seems like Joey has been with us for much longer...like it or not, he's just one of us now. As Joey becomes more familiar with us, he also becomes louder! It appears he is feeling more comfortable expressing himself...a good sign I'm sure. One rule we have established is "where Joey goes the Cheerios go". Its the best pacifier we could have.

Today we went to a wholesale pearl and jade market. It was in a mall and took about 20 minutes to get there by foot. Because it was drizzling it became necessary for Joey to wear his red Wisconsin baseball cap. He didn't mind it because papa was wearing his. We took a taxi home but the markets we passed on the way provided quite an educational experience and were more of an "eye opener" than the shops on the island where we are staying. I believe the street we traveled represented some sort of a medicinal farmer's market as it was very interesting to see all of the vendors selling their goods (scorpions, rabbits, medicine, fish, puppies, etc.). Once you walk through approximately a mile or so of vendors, you hit a very large open area. Standing in this area you could see both the poorer housing and fabulous high rises. This area had a large video/tv screen as well as huge bill boards, KFC, McDonalds etc. We attempted to stimulate the economy by leaving a few green backs behind!

Joey was very good throughout the 3-hour excursion. Gratefully, he continues to do well in the hip hammock. He was fascinated by the external glass elevators in the mall and clapped each time they stopped at a floor. Makes for cheap entertainment. We ate at McDonald's for lunch (and it never tasted so good). Upon our return from the pearl market we took a taxi back to the Grand Mall Dept store for more groceries 'cause little Joey can really eat and we needed to prepare for tomorrow's big day.

Actually, he continues to be a delight. We are always laughing at him as he mimics everything we do (like wearing the baseball hat). He tries to mimic some words too, but that seems more difficult for him. With time, that will come too. We're told by our Guide (Grace) that he probably did not have a lot of people talking to him in the orphanage...the Nannies just didn't have that much time. Also, he was probably in a room with other children who were younger, so the conversations were most likely "beneath" him!

Tomorrow is our trip to his orphanage. It will be a 3-hour (round trip) bus ride, but we will be gone all day. Tom and I will probably take turns going inside, as we don't want the little guy to get confused as to why we are there. Could be an emotional day.

Well, Tom's putting Joey down now (he didn't have a nap today) so should hopefully be quick, since the little fella is tired. Will report back later.

MB

Traumatic Medical Exam

Today's required business was a visit to the Medical Clinic for Joey's medical clearance check. The exam included three different components, each at a different station or room but all within about 1200 sq ft.

We saved the full monty scene for last as we thought that may be the most traumatic if not the most "probing". As it turned out it didn't matter where we started as each encounter was just as upsetting as the others. First was the ENT exam. The light on the examiner's (not sure of anyone's credentials) forehead was pretty scary for the little guy. So not only did the examiner check the ears, nose and throat but he learned about Joey's lungs too!

Next was the non-invasive weigh in and length measurements. For some reason this too was unacceptable and Joey let us know this. Several people in our group were interested in the resulting weigh in. For the record a svelte 26 lbs, 32 inches.

Last, was the full body exam with measurement of head circumference and brief peeks into the privates. With Joey demonstrating his excellent lung capacity I was a bit surprised when the examiner suggested I shake this noisy rattle to try and distract him while she was listening to his chest. The entire ordeal was over in about an hour which is equivalent to one small container of Cheerios.

I'm happy to report that the taxi caravan to Pizza Hut was not necessary as they do deliver. The product is close enough for these pizza connoisseurs to consider again and confirmed by one couple from New Hampshire and a gentleman from Tennessee - although a bit light on the sauce. Haven't heard from the Texans yet. However they do not serve bread sticks so keep that in mind. My main concern was conveying the distribution of the pepperoni on a half pepp and half cheese pizza. The woman spoke pretty good English so she finally got it right. Guess I can thank Nixon and Kissinger for that delicious meal.

Tomorrow we expect the return of some paperwork related to Joey's passport and visa. Really no work for us so an optional trip to the Pearl Market is scheduled with an equally optional Cantonese luncheon planned. We think there may be a McDonalds in the vacinity.

That's it for now.
Joey and his rents.

Monday, April 2, 2007

Sleeping Beauty

Ni Hao (pronounced Nee how meaning hello)

We took care of another necessary piece of business yesterday afternoon by traveling back to the Provincial Office Building (DMV). We received Joey's Adoption Registration Certificate and then applied for Joey's passport. This of course required another picture at the DMV - Joey only. It will take a few days to process the passport which is expected later this week.

Today was a free day without appointments. Joey slept about 13 hours and we basically had to wake him to get to brunch prior to our 9:30 group bus tour. The first of three stops was at the Six Banyan's Buddhist Temple. Buddhism remains the dominant religion in China but was somewhat suppressed by communism after 1945. It was a little odd site seeing and photographing the temple while people were worshiping. There was actually a ceremony going on in the temple which we were allowed to photograph. In the temple there were three large Buddhas. One representing past life, present life and future life. Reincarnation is a core belief. Sacrifices or gifts left inside the temple included Coke, Nestea, Sprite, oranges and possibly candy.

Next we visited the Provincial Folk Art Museum which is also known as the Chen Clan Academy or Chen Ancestral Hall. In short, this was a 15,000 square meter complex previously used by members of the Chen families (from what I understand a very large group) built over 100 years ago during the Qing Dynasty - like I know anything about that, but that's what this pamphlet says! Now it is an art museum home to porcelain, paintings, embroidery, ornate carvings and statues.

Lastly, the bus stopped at the Provincial Arts and Crafts store. A government sponsored souvenir shop. Actually, there were beautiful paintings, porcelain, jade and the like. Prices were reasonable and quality was guaranteed so you don't have to worry about authenticity.

Joey was an angel throughout, garnering the attention of parents on the bus as well as local merchants and retailers. The hip-hammock works well and he seems to enjoy it too.

Tomorrow Joey has a medical exam and gets his visa photo taken. Shouldn't take too long and we won't travel far so maybe another swim if the weather cooperates.

I'm working on a trip to Pizza Hut and have a couple other families interested. Zoo on Saturday.

More later.

Tom, MB, Joey

Sunday, April 1, 2007

Shrinking Room & Rubber Walls

...and there was evening and there was morning, THE FIFTH DAY - in this room.

After shopping downtown yesterday and missing that important "window of opportunity" known as nap time and with no scheduled activities for today we were determined to take back control.

We started the day in the usual way - breakfast at the big buffet.
(I thought the rhyme was rather nice but we'll see what the editor thinks).
Scrambled eggs, french toast, bread, juice and more all came after Joey had his wake-up bottle of formula. I think this little guy (little being a relative term) is in training for the 2008 Beijing Olympics.

With an eye on his normal nap time of noon we spent time after breakfast in the Hotel's play room with other kids. While waiting for the maid to finish the room we spoke to a couple of parents who were treating their babies with antibiotics for pneumonia and bronchitis. There is good access to a medical clinic near by. Its not the Dean Clinic, of course, so lets hope we avoid it.
After some creative improvisation by the main act, the star of the show took a well deserved two hour nap. Upon his awakening it happened. The room shrunk and we started bouncing off the walls. So we took a stroll. (I can say that because we actually used a stroller!) There are several little businesses that will "loan" you a stroller hoping you'll do business, especially laundry. This marketing technique works well. After milling about and doing some price comparisons on bottled drinking water we made the necessary purchase at a 7-11. These are actually 7-11 stores like you'd see in the US. There are two very close to our hotel.

Returning to our room at about 4:30 the room's size and elasticity had not changed so we "struck out" (this time without stroller) for the pool. I should report that special absorbency was worn beneath the fashionable swim wear by at least one of the male participants. We also struck out without camera thinking this would likely be a short and uneventful first encounter with the water given our initial attempt at bathing the big fella.

Our failure to bring either recording device (camera or video) guaranteed an excellent adventure. Joey really did well in the baby pool hopefully setting up lots of future fun in the days to come which will be appropriately documented and published right here I'm sure.

Tomorrow (Monday) requires traveling as a group by bus back to the Provincial Office Building (DMV) to begin applying for Joey's visa to the USA.

We have some upcoming trips to the orphanage, zoo and will likely venture across the river into a portion of the City which is more representative of modern China. Likely to be an eye opener.

I'm at deadline so must submit to my editor. Signing off for now.

Hoss, little Joe and little Joe's mama!

(Some technical difficulty transfering pictures so we'll keep trying to add a few later)